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Bryan Abasolo was a contestant on the 13th season of The Bachelorette, where he got engaged to Rachel Lindsay.

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Bryan got engaged to Rachel Lindsay after meeting her on the 13th season of The Bachelorette.

"Rachel, Rachel, Rachel, Rachel. When I first stepped put of that limo, I knew I was in for the ride of my life. When we first kissed, it was literally like a chemistry bomb had just exploded and I just knew that first night, a hundred percent certainty in my heart that we definitely could be something special. You are everything I could ever want in a woman, a wife, the mother of my children. I'm completely head-over-heels, totally, absolutely in love with you, I just hope you feel the same" - Bryan to Rachel

"My heart has never been more confused that it has been this week. I've always been drawn to the excitement of gambling my feelings on the complicated relationships and, you know, it's the damaged connections that have offered me the chance to always run away and that's why, when I met you, it just seemed too perfect and I was trying to find cracks in what seemed like the perfect foundation and I really, really had to do some soul-searching, deeper than I ever have before, to find the courage to challenge myself, but... This love has been so mature, it's tested me in ways that I couldn't have even imagined. And I always said that I would know that the person that I'm supposed to is someone that I could never picture my life without. So right here, in this moment standing with you, I see my forever and I see my future. Wait! And I just wanna tell you that I love you and I'm in love with you, and I can't imagine spending my life with anybody else!" - Rachel to Bryan

"I'm not done, I got more to say! I am the best version of myself when I'm with you. You are so easy and effortless to love and I just want to love you for the rest of my life! Rachel Lynn Lindsay, will you be my reína (queen) forever and marry me?" - Bryan proposing to Rachel

They married on August 24, 2019, at the Royalton Suites Cancún in Mexico. On January 2, 2024, he filed for divorce.


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Would you describe yourself more as "the party starter", "the wingman" or "the laid back one"?
I probably start kind of laid back and work my way up to "party" status at this point in my life.

What are your three best attributes?
Affectionate/passionate, personable/charming/funny, kind/good heart.

Would you say you're more of a country or more of a city person?
City person for sure.

If you could be someone else just for one day, who would it be and why?
Bill Gates, just because he's so selfless and charitable. I would want to feel the gratification of donating billions of dollars to help so many people around the world. It would be the best feeling.

What's your favorite flower?

What is your favorite television show and why?
"Sports Center". I love sports and love talking sports with my friends, so I get most information from that show and sports talk radio. And believe it or not, "The Bachelor"/"Bachelorette" series.

Do you speak any languages other than English? If so, which one(s)? How did you learn them?
Spanish. I've spoken Spanish since I was a child. Taught to me by my mom who speaks to me primarily in Spanish.

What's the most embarrassing style you've rocked?
JNCO Jeans!! Sooooo baggy lol. Skate or die, man!! I looked ridiculous!

I hate when my date...?
has bad table manners.

Do you plan on having kids someday? If yes, how many and why?
Yes, 2-3 kids, preferably two boys, one girl. A boy needs a little brother and they both can protect their sister.